Saturday, 2 February 2013

Friends...

Well there's been a few friend related incidents at school, and I just wanted to use this post to explain how important real friends really are:

There's always those friends whom you think will always be there for you. No matter what happens they'll always stick by you. Through your ups and downs there'll be there congratulating or comforting you. Those friends that you'll have mini-fights with but always end up becoming close friends again. Those friends that know your a person they can trust and have every faith that you can keep their secrets.You'll probably have the same likes and dislikes, similar music tastes, similar personality's. That's what makes your best friend your best friend.

But then something happens that changes all of that. You slowly start drifting apart. You get new friends they get new friends. They have new interests, you think you haven't changed, but you have. True they still comfort you when you're feeling down but you don't feel comforted anymore. They can't seem to be able to trust you and you can't trust them. However much you want to tell them something, you're scared, scared that they may tell someone or scared that they won't even care.

These things happen. Just remember sometimes when you tell each other 'I'll always be there for you.' you may have both had different definitions of 'always'.

But sometimes you may think it's your fault that your friend isn't hanging around with you as much as they did before. It probably isn't. People change, it's what life is. I know it's a sad time. Your friend could be feeling the same way as you. Because it's not just them that change you change to.

But of course some friends stay with you whatever the circumstances, so I'm not basing this on everyone, just those with situations like this.

But the hardest things are:
You realize what a truly painful goodbye it was, not full explained, not fully said.
When they turn around and look at you, say nothing, as if the time you were friends never even happened...

But remember try not to be mean to your used to be friend. It's alright to be angry but not full frontal 'I AM NEVER GONNA FORGIVE YOU' mode. Don't think about revenge. Even if you think they treated you like a toy, picked you up and dropped you as soon as newer ones came out. Respect each other, you may not be close friends anymore but you must realise you once were and you must never ever forget those crazily wonderful times you had...

I just wanted to share a few quotes with you:

'Friendship is like glass, once broken, it's never the same.'

'A good friend is hard to find, hard to lose, and impossible to forget.'

Take out the picture blow off the dust. Take off the frame it's starting to rust. Remember the times we had together. What happened to being Best Friends Forever.

And just a quote to two particular people, you know who you are:

'Friends always buy you food. Best friends always eat your food.'

but don't ever think:




Shakira

xx


1 comment:

  1. Soooooo cute!!!
    Didn't know you were this deep...LOL!

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